
In this world, parents are given a status equal to God, so obviously, their responsibility is equally great. But what is their real responsibility?
Their responsibility is not limited to just pampering, feeding, or paying school fees. These are small duties. Their most important responsibility is to prepare their children for the struggles of life.
Their responsibility is not limited to just pampering, feeding, or paying school fees. These are small duties. Their most important responsibility is to prepare their children for the struggles of life.
And in this, most parents are failing—because their excessive love has become a wall in their children’s path. From childhood, they make their kids habitual to comfort and instant gratification. Whatever the child demands is handed over immediately. They are not allowed to make their own decisions—parents fear it might hurt them.
But these very memories of an easy childhood turn into weakness in youth. Today, we see children in 10th or 12th grade getting depressed over low marks. They get frustrated when they don’t get a job. They consider their first failure as their final defeat. Why? Because their mind is weak.They are facing real difficulties for the first time, and they are not used to it.
Think about it.Thomas Edison failed 10,000 times in making the bulb.Abraham Lincoln tried for years to gain knowledge outside the classroom but never gave up.He kept trying until he succeeded.
But today, we give up over small failures. We get frustrated. Some even end their lives.
There is only one difference between us and great people:They strengthened their minds by facing difficulties from childhood—facing good and bad days one after another.But our weak youth cannot bear these struggles, simply because they were never trained to face them.
Now let’s talk about the most important value:What kind of mental training should be given?
First of all, parents must clearly explain from childhood that life is full of challenges.You will face them, and to do that, you must become mentally strong.
This mental strength can be built by practicing small challenges daily.For example:
Learning a few new words every day
Running for 1 minute daily and slowly increasing the time
Facing discomfort without Help this will slowly bring out their hidden strength.
Similarly, we can train our mind by:
Reading the biographies of great people like Ambedkar, Lincoln, or Benjamin Franklin.
Solving math Problems
understanding concepts on our own
Doing this helps develop mental resilience and self-confidence.
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